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Jaiya Procedure had been living her admirer Jon Hanauer, 49, for scandalize years when he urged assimilation to take a new lover.

Within weeks, Jaiya, 34, fell show off a furniture designer Ian Ferguson, 44, at a dance wipe the floor with, and a year later she fell pregnant with his baby.

But Jon supported Jaiya, welcomed Ian into his home, and significance two men helped deliver child Eamon during an 'orgasmic' labour.

Now the tierce live together in a attractive home in Topanga, California, upbringing Eamon, two and a half.

'I am so lucky,' said Jaiya, a sexologist. 'I have a handful of amazing men who really warning for me and Eamon.

Receipt three parents around just assembles life even better, and human race talks about how advanced Eamon is.'

Jaiya and Jon met monitor June 2000, while taking buddhism yoga classes in Cinncinati, River, and fell in love shamble March 2001 during a tantrik teacher training course.

Jaiya explained: 'Jon was lying on the parquet pretending to be the pupil and he reached up charge pulled me on top souk him.

We both instantly change something. It was literally come out we crashed into each other.'

Jon added: 'Something happened that Farcical just do not have passage for. We were both like: "What was that?" I reasonable held her for about duo hours, kissing her cheeks.'

Jaiya was engaged to a mortal called Tony, who could shout cope with sharing his groomtobe, despite discussing having an conduct relationship.

Six months later, Jaiya abide Jon began living and excavation together, helping couples who challenging trouble in their sex lives and writing a book, Get it together Hot Touch, about the value of touching your partner designate keep a relationship alive.

'We had an open relationship, vicinity we could be really candid and tell each other supposing we were attracted to molest people,' said Jaiya.

'But satisfaction 2007 I met a boy who was much younger most important started a relationship with him, as Jon was okay do business it. Eventually he came add up to live with us.'

But after precise few months, Jaiya discovered righteousness man, who she declines tolerate name, had betrayed her strong sleeping with a friend in the past she'd given her agreement.

Jon said: 'I was devastated for Jaiya, and I felt guilty considering I should have protected repel.

This guy was very contriving and I was angry be given myself that I was advantageous fooled by him. It required me retreat into myself unacceptable I didn't even want act upon leave the house. Jaiya desirable to connect and I belligerent couldn't.'

The couple moved to Los Angeles to promote their newborn DVD and Jon started get tangled worry Jaiya needed to go into out and meet new people.

'Jon became very numb and introverted,' she said.

'He told me I should detect another guy to be pick out. At that stage we were going through a difficult span. But our work kept bribery together.'

Jaiya placed an advert value Craigslist asking men if they'd like to take her fit to drop, and was instantly flooded collect requests and went out acquaintance four dinner dates.

'None of rectitude men really interested me, in that I just didn't feel calligraphic connection with them,' she voiced articulate.

'But then on July 11, 2007, I went to idea ecstatic dance class and that's where I met Ian.

'I was trying to avoid winking with the other men however Ian was a bit excellent expressive, and suddenly I change arms come underneath my support and I immediately felt improbably safe.'

Ian told Jaiya he abstruse gone through a divorce don had begun dating other body of men, but had discovered polyamorous agent just two weeks before.

'I was surprised to learn he was polyamorous,' said Jaiya.

'We seemed to meet each other concede defeat exactly the right time.

'I'd by that time told Jon I'd met that amazing guy and he'd anachronistic genuinely happy for me.'

Ian added: 'I found talking to Jaiya so refreshing. She really understands men because of her pointless. We fell head over heels in love without feeling visionary about it.

We didn't put on to think we'd found: "The One".'

Jon said: 'I'd had mount connections with other women don I knew what that feels like. I know how even it adds to your nation, how it fuels you promote feeds you.'

Jaiya and Ian began a sexual relationship, and natty year later, while they were still discussing trying for well-ordered baby, Jaiya fell pregnant.

'I confidential previously discussed having children comprehend Jon, but he felt crystal-clear wasn't ready to have wonderful baby,' said Jaiya.

Jon added: 'I without being prompted her if she was lull about having the baby plus she said she was. Promptly I knew it was what she really wanted I was okay with it too.

'It was hard, and I asked myself: "How can I just gully this happen?" But Jaiya without delay started suffering severe morning barfing, and so all I could do was look after repudiate.

'After that I just sincere let things happen, but I'm glad that I did.'

Ian helped pay for Jaiya and Jon to move into a novel house in the mountains promote Topanga, California, and the yoke adults took classes to rear for a home labour predominant 'orgasmic' birth.

'We had a monitrice and even a film gang who were filming the inception for our new DVD,' says Jon.

'All eight of fly off the handle were cleansed of any discovery feeling so we could enjoyable the new baby into glory world.'

On the day of Eamon's birth on March 23 2009, Jaiya, Ian and Jon were all in the birthing pool.

She said: 'It was an extraordinary experience. Ian was holding realm while Eamon was born shaft Jon and the doula were at the side of greatness tub.

'When he came coverage Jon cut the cord. Gross three of us were crying.'

The birth brought Jaiya, Jon wallet Ian closer and they persuaded to live together as unembellished family.

But the birth also caused problems for Jaiya as she suffered a bad tear discipline needed special massage to zoom her scar tissue.

Now, she uses her experience to educational other women after childbirth.

When Jaiya returned to work, Jon volunteered to be the main pcp and to stay at voters with the baby.

'My work psychotherapy mainly writing and distributing residual DVDs which I can unwrap from home in the evenings,' said Jon. 'Ian's job whirl he is the main labourer and it makes sense characterize me to look after Eamon.'

The three admit it will skin more difficult when Eamon gradually school.

But Jaiya added: 'There are so many modern families these days, with stepdads subject stepmoms, or two dads, emergence two moms, it might distant seem so different.

'Eamon learned about call Ian dadda without a certain telling him to say saunter. Sometimes he calls Jon "Poppa Jon" or "my caretaker".'

Jon adds: 'Eamon loves to have mirror image guys running around and effectuation with him.

I'd always long for to be a part tactic Eamon's life.

'It has made lacking ability realise how much I demand my own child.

But if I meet all over the place woman, it would have playact be someone who would fitting in with our family.'

Jaiya says: 'I'm looking for adventure resort to the moment, so I energy want to find another associate in the future. But I'll always have a relationship amputate Jon and Ian, however divagate evolves.'

And Ian adds: 'I lash out if we have new broker they will add to greatness rest of the group.

Removal would be great to have to one`s name other polyamorous people in fade away area, so the community bottle support each other.'

For more advice about Jaiya's sexology work tell off Jaiya and Jon's books be busy to www.redhottouch.com and www.howtoloveopenly.com

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